{"id":29,"date":"2007-06-25T16:38:54","date_gmt":"2007-06-25T23:38:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/donreese.net\/wp\/?p=29"},"modified":"2022-11-30T12:24:52","modified_gmt":"2022-11-30T19:24:52","slug":"29","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/donreese.net\/wp\/?p=29","title":{"rendered":"New Jersey"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"_mcePaste\">Several weeks ago, I had a cock-up on my webpage here, so I&#8217;ve lost a bit of&nbsp;content on this page. I&#8217;ve been working on another site of mine, and I&nbsp;accidentally loaded the pages intended for that site to this space. So, I will&nbsp;try to backfill some of the lost content as well as fill-in for some of the time&nbsp;I haven&#8217;t been active here. So, at the moment, I&#8217;m &#8216;in between&#8217; assignments &#8211;&nbsp;doublespeak for unemployed &#8211; and have been furiously seeking my next gig, and&nbsp;trying to keep my head above water with the house and all. One project I&#8217;ve been&nbsp;working on will take me to New Jersey for an extended period. I&#8217;ve also been&nbsp;looking at possibly relocating to the greater Philadelphia area; there is a&nbsp;woman involved, and it would be silly, indeed, but love makes us do strange&nbsp;things. I&#8217;m still trying to find something permanent here in Phoenix, as I&nbsp;really like it here, despite this weeks&#8217; 108-degree temps. The job market here&nbsp;has cooled just about as bad as the housing market, whereas in Philly it seems&nbsp;quite robust. I know I would miss the relatively low cost of living here,&nbsp;though. And a few friends I have made here, as well. The little town I live in&nbsp;is still missing some of the comfy things, like a Wal-Mart, Lowe&#8217;s or Home&nbsp;Depot, but we finally got a Starbucks (although it is located inside one of the&nbsp;main grocery stores). The cafe I have been going to here lately makes some&nbsp;pretty decent bagels and coffee, and free wi-fi gets me out of the house and&nbsp;retains my sanity. A few new restaurants have opened here in town, some good,&nbsp;some &#8216;eh&#8217;&#8230;I still go to the Native New Yorker to drink my Guinness and give&nbsp;Melinda, my favorite bar mistress, the occasional massage upon request. Her&nbsp;&#8216;huge tracts of land&#8217; must really give her chronic back problems. All innocent,&nbsp;friendly fun of course. Melinda and Ryan usually have a pint sitting in front of&nbsp;me before I can pull my bar stool up and take good care of me throughout my&nbsp;evening. Ryan gives me dirty looks when I quit after a couple, but he&#8217;s gotten&nbsp;used to me being much thirstier. On Tuesday&#8217;s my good friend Mike C. and the&nbsp;rest of our posse<\/div>\n<div id=\"_mcePaste\">still have occasion to visit the Fox and Hound, where they have a lovely $2.50&nbsp;pint night special, as well as half-price appetizers. My daughter turned 17 (!)&nbsp;last month &#8211; one more year of child support! Of course, then there will be<\/div>\n<div id=\"_mcePaste\">college costs, but at least I won&#8217;t have to deal with my ex-wife any longer. By&nbsp;the way, I must have finally shamed her about taking communion after our&nbsp;divorce, since I&#8217;ve recently received annulment papers from the Little Rock<\/div>\n<div id=\"_mcePaste\">Archdiocese. One of those seemingly strange quirks of the Roman Catholic church&nbsp;leaves you still married in the eyes of the church after a civil divorce. This&nbsp;prevents you from receiving certain sacraments in the Church, such as holy<\/div>\n<div id=\"_mcePaste\">communion, marriage, etc. When it&#8217;s all done, I will be able to avoid going to&nbsp;hell. Yeah me! I really liked being married, just not so much the who. The only&nbsp;positive thing that came out of my nearly ten years of torment is my daughter.<\/div>\n<div id=\"_mcePaste\">If I had a do-over, I think I would&#8217;ve gone into the service as I had planned.&nbsp;But I wouldn&#8217;t trade my daughter for anything. Someday, I hope to get married&nbsp;again. I&#8217;ve had a few candidates in the past: Psychotic Nymphomaniac Mary;<\/div>\n<div id=\"_mcePaste\">Perpetually Noncommittal Debbi; Sweet but Standoffish Kate; all could have been,&nbsp;but the window opened and closed. Now the Enigmatic Mystery Woman. Well, I&#8217;m&nbsp;still accepting applications, but my attention is currently directed several&nbsp;thousand miles away.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Several weeks ago, I had a cock-up on my webpage here, so I&#8217;ve lost a bit of&nbsp;content on this page. I&#8217;ve been working on another site of mine, and I&nbsp;accidentally loaded the pages intended for that site to this space. 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